I Wish I Wish
I begin to realise that
people from the newer generation are very self-centred.
And yes, im one of these people.
We want every attention to be on us.
We expect our parents to love us the most.
We expect our bf/husband to love us, only us, forever.
We want all the good things for ourselves.
We will rather not marry if we can't someone who will love us all the time.
We will rather not give birth unless we are sure that we provide the BEST for our children and that the children will be the better performed group in the society.
We can easily move out and stay away from our parents when we feel that they can't accomodate to our different lifestyles, or when they simply don't treat us like how we want it to be.
The FACT is
we are not everything.
We can't expect our parents to love us the most and give us everything we want, especially when we have siblings.
We can't expect another human being to love us wholeheartedly all the time, when we can't even guarantee that we can do it.
And of cos, what is really the BEST?
And can we control what kind of child we will give birth to?
It's crap.
We are just selfish.
I don't believe that my husband will love me like how he used to love me before marriage.
It's just impossible.
I don't believe my parents love and treat all of us, my siblings and i equally.
(How do u calculate this equality anyway)
And until now, i can't figure out what is the BEST for my child.
When im still young and healthy so that i can give birth to a healthy child?
When im 35 and own a private property with my husband?
Or when i just FEEL like it.
lols...
I don't think i will love my husband the same way all the time.
But i know he will always be my husband
the one and only who will be with me for the rest of my life.
My preference may change.
My feeling and emotion may change.
But my heart remains the same.
Love is where the heart belongs.
Not actions.
Not words.
I believe in happy endings(:
I Wish Upon a Star on Sunday, January 31, 2010
The only constant thing in life is CHANGE
I begin to realise that
people from the newer generation are very self-centred.
And yes, im one of these people.
We want every attention to be on us.
We expect our parents to love us the most.
We expect our bf/husband to love us, only us, forever.
We want all the good things for ourselves.
We will rather not marry if we can't someone who will love us all the time.
We will rather not give birth unless we are sure that we provide the BEST for our children and that the children will be the better performed group in the society.
We can easily move out and stay away from our parents when we feel that they can't accomodate to our different lifestyles, or when they simply don't treat us like how we want it to be.
The FACT is
we are not everything.
We can't expect our parents to love us the most and give us everything we want, especially when we have siblings.
We can't expect another human being to love us wholeheartedly all the time, when we can't even guarantee that we can do it.
And of cos, what is really the BEST?
And can we control what kind of child we will give birth to?
It's crap.
We are just selfish.
I don't believe that my husband will love me like how he used to love me before marriage.
It's just impossible.
I don't believe my parents love and treat all of us, my siblings and i equally.
(How do u calculate this equality anyway)
And until now, i can't figure out what is the BEST for my child.
When im still young and healthy so that i can give birth to a healthy child?
When im 35 and own a private property with my husband?
Or when i just FEEL like it.
lols...
I don't think i will love my husband the same way all the time.
But i know he will always be my husband
the one and only who will be with me for the rest of my life.
My preference may change.
My feeling and emotion may change.
But my heart remains the same.
Love is where the heart belongs.
Not actions.
Not words.
I believe in happy endings(:
I Wish Upon a Star on Sunday, January 31, 2010